Last week Gwen graduated from 6th grade and her mama almost melted down. Not sure why, but the anticipation of this event had me freaked out for the entire last week of school.
Gwen is not capable of doing 6th grade work, but graduated because she is 12 and it’s time for middle school. There is a large special needs population at this school and any one of them who ages out can participate in the ceremony. Throughout the year, the special needs kids spend time in regular classrooms, so they are graduating with their peers.
The week leading up to the ceremony saw me a complete wreck, and for no reason! We are registered at a great school for next year. We already know that Gwen’s teacher will be a wonderful lady who has had her for the last 5 years in summer school. It’s all good, but the prospect of change made me come unhinged. I’m a lot better at this than I used to be. The first time Gwen moved – from a baby class to the 2-year-old class next door on the bottom floor of a world class children’s hospital – I cried and panicked for days.
We were able to use this year’s fancy dress for the third time. She wore it first in a wedding, then to the prom and finally for graduation. I left off the crocheted gloves and the necklace because I didn’t think graduation called for bling. I was wrong- many of the girls looked like they were going to Cinderella’s ball. There were updo’s, high heels, rhinestones and floor length dresses. One dude was looking really sharp in a fedora.
Once again we had the opportunity to participate in a rite of passage that seemed out of our reach. Yes, I cried this time too. Not out of panic, but out of gratitude for what our precious girl has been able to achieve.
May 30, 2009 at 4:49 pm |
omg! i want to cry for you and with you right now! i’m going through this for the past few months. my baby will be 10. how on earth did that happen? 10! double digits. he barely made it his first year! It’s like we ask ourselves how did we do it? how did we get from there to here?
big big hugs!!
May 30, 2009 at 10:17 pm |
ummm so Superwoman does cry….. a previous post of yours roflo.
Oh Sarah I feel I should send a plane load of tissues over to you. Well done Gwen, Gwensmum, Gwensdad and grandma. And what about the teachers keep at it kid. You are the best. love and hugs sheila…. obtw I see you have entered the 4seasons swap again. Hope I get some blocks from you.
May 30, 2009 at 10:21 pm |
congrats, gwen’s mom, gwen’s dad and most of all, gwen!
May 31, 2009 at 6:58 am |
Congrats to you all! What a great day!
June 2, 2009 at 8:55 pm |
here’s to sentimental endings and new beginnings! thanks for sharing this with us!
June 3, 2009 at 10:12 am |
Congrats! Crying is okay — I’m sure there were many parents of “normal” kids who were crying too :) Change is a scary thing, isn’t it?
Give Gwen a big hug for me! Hope you have a great summer :D